Funeral planning
Pallbearer Planner
Choose people who can safely and confidently do the job, then tell them exactly where to be and what will happen.
Short answer
Choose people who can safely and confidently do the job, then tell them exactly where to be and what will happen.
Who to choose
Physical ability matters, but traditions vary and honorary pallbearers can include people who should be recognized without carrying.
Give one clear message
Include arrival time, clothing expectations if any, where to meet, whether there are stairs or uneven ground, and who will instruct them.
Have backups
If carrying will be required, ask the funeral home how many people are needed and whether staff can step in if someone becomes unable to participate.