Whatever life has brought, find the help you need here.
Free guides, checklists, calculators, wording help, printable packs and private planning tools for life's important moments, from joy and preparation to grief and sudden change.
What has just happened?
Choose the closest situation. Each area opens into practical guidance, tools, wording help and printables, not one thin article.
Someone I love has died
What matters first, what can wait, paperwork, funeral decisions, wording, costs and care for yourself.
Show me what to do →Funeral or memorial
Service, food, costs, printing, family tasks and day-of details.
Explore funeral help →We just got engaged
Make the first decisions before the wedding industry makes them for you.
Start together →We're planning a wedding
Budget, guests, food, wording, timelines, family contributions and the day itself.
Explore wedding help →We're welcoming a baby
Essentials, visitors, meals, helpers, the first two weeks and support for parents.
Explore new-baby help →Baptism or christening
Church questions, invitations, program, guests, food and reception planning.
Plan the day →Take the whole plan with you.
The packs gather the most useful worksheets into one printable resource. They are designed to feel substantial enough that you would normally expect to pay for them.
Complete funeral planning pack
First decisions, funeral-home questions, budget, service, reception, food, paperwork and day-of planning.
Open the free pack →WeddingComplete wedding planning pack
Budget, guest count, priorities, tasks, timeline, suppliers, food and the details that are easy to miss.
Open the free pack →New babyFirst weeks with a new baby pack
Essentials, meals, visitors, household help, older children, notes and a simple first-weeks plan.
Open the free pack →Sometimes the hard part is knowing what to say, what you might forget, or how to keep going.
What do I say?
Death announcements, children, employers, invitations, boundaries and awkward conversations.
Find words →What might I forget?
The small details that often cause the most stress at the last minute.
Check the blind spots →Self-care that fits the situation
Grief, decision fatigue, wedding pressure, new-parent exhaustion and asking someone else to carry something.
Take care of yourself too →Help someone else
Practical ways to support someone who is bereaved, welcoming a baby or planning a major event.
See how to help →Share a plan privately
Copy, print or export a small plan file without putting a family plan into our database.
Share without an account →Browse every tool
Search calculators, checklists, decision guides, wording tools and printable planners.
See all tools →No account is required for the core planning tools.
We deliberately avoid a central database of personal family plans. If you choose to remember progress, it is stored in your own browser. Sharing can be done by copy, print or exported file.
How privacy works
Clear sources, clear limits, and no pretending to be your doctor or lawyer.
Health, legal, tax and administrative information is kept general, location-sensitive and linked to authoritative sources. High-stakes pages carry contextual notices and review dates.