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Calculators, checklists, wording helpers, printable programs and planning tools. No account required, and the useful part is not hidden behind a payment screen.

What are you trying to do?

Someone has died. What now?

A calm first-step guide for the United States.

Who needs to be notified?

Government, financial, household and digital-account checklist.

How do I tell people?

Respectful wording for family messages, social posts and practical notices.

Meal, shopping & sharing planner

Food quantities, concrete shopping list and tasks for helpers.

Funeral planning checklist

A prioritized list that remembers your progress on this device.

Obituary helper

Build a warm factual obituary without staring at a blank page.

Funeral budget planner

Set a ceiling, enter quotes and see what is optional.

Order of service maker

Create and print a simple funeral or memorial program.

Thank-you note helper

Short, human wording for the people who helped.

Wedding checklist

Plan in the order that prevents expensive rework.

Wedding budget planner

Start with what you can spend, then allocate it around your priorities.

Guest-list builder

Build a realistic guest count before committing to venues and catering.

Wedding program maker

A clean printable ceremony program with the details you choose.

New baby essentials checklist

Separate must-have preparations from things that can wait.

New-parent help planner

Turn vague offers of help into meals, errands, visits and practical support.

Baby shower planner

Guest list, food, practical gifts and a simple run-of-day plan.

Church & family

Baptism / christening checklist

Church questions, guests, clothing, reception and day-of details.

Church & family

Baptism / christening program maker

Create a simple family keepsake and order of service.

Eulogy outline builder

Choose a few true things and build a clear speaking outline.

Food for a crowd planner

Quantities, shopping list and jobs to delegate.

Community contribution planner

Track money and practical help people have actually offered.

After the wedding

We just got married. What next?

A calm post-wedding admin and first-weeks guide.

Documents organizer

Gather identity, estate, financial and household information without trying to find everything today.

Digital accounts guide

Phones, email, cloud photos, social media and subscriptions.

Reception planner

Venue, food, helpers, leftovers and cleanup.

Announcement wording

Text, social media, family and service-detail examples.

Flowers & donations wording

Memorial gifts, charity donations and practical-family-support examples.

Photo slideshow planner

Collect, organize and test a simple memorial slideshow.

Wedding day timeline

Generate a working schedule around the ceremony time.

Vow helper

Prompts and a simple structure for vows that sound like you.

Venue question list

What to ask before paying a deposit.

Hospital bag checklist

A practical, not-overpacked list to check with your own hospital.

Visitor plan & wording

Kind boundaries and practical-help messages for the first weeks.

Baptism / christening

Invitation wording

Simple invitation examples for church and family celebrations.

Baptism / christening

Reception planner

Food, guests and helpers after the service.

Build My Plan

Answer a few questions and get your next three priorities and the right tools.

Questions for a funeral home

A printable consumer checklist before you agree to services.

Burial or cremation guide

Work through wishes, beliefs, cost, place and what happens afterward.

Death certificate tracker

Plan copies and track institutions and accounts.

Readings, prayers & music

Choose a few meaningful pieces without filling space for its own sake.

Funeral day timeline

Family arrival, service, committal, reception and cleanup.

Seating planner

Keep households and groups together where possible.

RSVP & wording helper

Clear, kind wording for awkward invitation questions.

Food & drink planner

Working quantities and a caterer or shopping checklist.

First two weeks plan

Meals, household work, visitors and named jobs for helpers.

Self-care after a death

Basic needs, decision fatigue, visitors and grief support.

Wedding planning self-care

Protect time, money, boundaries and the relationship.

New-parent self-care

Recovery, visitors, emotional health and when to seek help.

How to support someone

Make concrete offers that reduce work rather than adding another decision.

My Next Steps

Keep three priorities, later tasks and helper jobs on your device.

Share a plan without an account

Copy, print, export or import a small planning file.

Complete funeral planning pack

A single printable working pack for priorities, contacts, service, reception and aftercare.

What do I say?

Find clear, kind words for difficult conversations and boundaries.

What might I forget?

Find the small, unowned details that create last-minute stress.

Help someone else

Make specific offers that remove work rather than add questions.

Minimum viable day

Reduce today to safety, essentials and one necessary task.

Decision fatigue

Reduce choices before trying to make better choices.

More life changes

More life changes

Caregiving, illness, pregnancy loss, adoption, retirement and family transitions.

State-by-state official sources

Use CDC and USAGov to reach the right state vital-records information.

Complete wedding planning pack

One printable working document for priorities, numbers, people and the day.

Complete new-baby first-weeks pack

One printable household plan for support, visitors and essentials.